I have no way of knowing whether or not you married the wrong person, but I do know that many people have a lot of wrong ideas about marriage and what it takes to make that marriage happy and successful. 

I'll be the first to admit that it's possible that you did marry the wrong person. However, if you treat the wrong person like the right person, you could well end up having married the right person after all. 

On the other hand, if you marry the right person, and treat that person wrong, you certainly will have ended up marrying the wrong person. 

I also know that it is far more important to be the right kind of person than it is to marry the right person. In short, whether you married the right or wrong person is primarily up to you.

Zig Ziglar 


 *     *     *     *     *

To get divorced because love has died, is like selling your car because it's run out of gas.

Diane Sollee
 
 *     *     *     *     *

Love is a feeling, Marriage is a contract, and a Relationship is work.

Lori Gordon

 

Comments

  1. alamodicus@gmail.comMarch 23, 2011 at 7:07 AM

    Here here! An old high schoolteacher (who was a Jesuit) once said "Marriage is not about finding the right person, but rather, about trying to be the right person for someone else".

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Your comments are helpful! Thanks!